Well I was talking with a friend and I was thinking out loud to this friend. I have never been on a second date. All the guys I have dated I was already in a relationship with them. I don't know what I'm doing wrong to get that second and third than move onto the relationship. I don't want to get into a relationship than go on dates with a guy. I know this doesn't sound like a big problem but for me it is. This would be one thing that would work out in my life.